Saturday, December 29, 2012

Peakin Christmas 2012

We kicked off the Peakin Christmas on the evening of Christmas Day. We hung out, chatted, ate tacos and the kids played.
Tyler and Tate slept in his room and stayed up WAY too late...they had a great time though!
 
The next morning we did our Christmas gift exchange, ate brunch and the kids played the morning away.  We got a large canvas for Pat and Linda again this year since the one we got them last year was before 2 important little boys were part of the family.
 
Cason was excited to be in the picture this year. ;)

I want this canvas for MY wall!  Eek...love this picture!  Wish you could see it better...the plastic is still on it here, so you can't really see the shot very well...

Then, all the kids opened gifts...everyone was so excited about all of their presents!
 
 

Then there was more playing and running around for the kids.  They love spending time together!
 

It was a great day and so nice that we were able to host it!  I love hosting gatherings in our home...I love that I have a home that fits enough people to host these gatherings!

After everyone went home, we packed up and headed out for our mini vacation to Grizzly Jacks Grand Bear Resort which was they boys' big Christmas gift this year.  Taking the boys on a little getaway just after Christmas as their big gift has become an annual tradition that we look forward to continuing for years and years to come.  Hopefully as time goes on, these trips will be longer than just a couple of days!

Stewart Christmas 2012

I cannot believe how quickly Christmas came and went this year!
 
We kicked off Christmas with a few days in Muscatine at my parents' house.  Santa brought the boys' gifts there.
The big boys got Balance Bikes and some nice loot in their stockings...
 
Cason got a little walking toy from Santa that he loves!

The boys were all so excited in the morning to go upstairs and see all of their gifts from Santa!

Tate was extremely excited about Dance Central 3!
 

Then, we opened gifts that we got the boys and each other.  Tate opened his new Twister game and started playing right away!  He's pretty good!

We hung out all day with family and that evening we opened gifts from Nana and Papa...

The kids were all thrilled with their head lamps.
I am unsure why Tate has to make the craziest faces for pictures, but it's just "him".
Silly kid...
 
 

Wesley got a Sit n Spin!

Then, the boys spent the next day out in the snow with their new sleds!

It was such a great time.  We got to spend time not only with the cousins, aunts, uncles, siblings and my parents, but my 95 year old grandpa, my 2 uncles (one whom lives in California and we rarely see) and my aunt, uncle and cousin from Des Moines made the trip.  There's just nothing like spending time with family on Christmas...love it!
Thank you to my parents for hosting everything!

Saturday, December 15, 2012

can't think of a creative title for this post...

Cason is sick...he has some sort of stomach bug...it's icky.  Weird thing is that he has no fever at all...just vomiting and diarrhea.  So sad.  :(

Wesley had his 4 year Well Child exam on Thursday...he is in the 13th percentile for weight and the 20th for height.  He is healthy right now!  He got his immunizations (the ones that he can have at least) and was very tough. If his immune system wasn't compromised, he would have needed his Chicken Pox booster this time.  It's just so frustrating to me, the topic of immunizations.  I  won't get into it too much on here because it's just not worth it, but I get so angry that my child's life is at risk because of these awful viruses that go around.  Viruses that shouldn't be seen anymore because of our access to immunizations.  Viruses that Wesley will never be able to be immunized for because of his medical condition.  And that's all I have to say about that.

Counting down the days until my big cookie exchange!  And it is going to be much bigger than last year!  I had 11 people last year and it's looking like I will have about 21 this year!  Eek!  So excited!  It is something I look forward to doing and will continue to do annually.  It was SO FUN last year.  It is my way to create a fun, girls night for my family and friends at a busy time of year that often time is overwhelming and stressful.  We acquire our desserts all in one night that we can give as gifts to friends, coworkers and neighbors or serve at our Christmas gatherings while also getting a few hours of stress free fun!  I plan it for months...literally!  I so love getting spend this time with all of these wonderful ladies and I am hoping this little party is a tradition for years to come!  I love throwing parties (got that from my mom!:)).

I wrapped some presents and put them under the tree...this kind of feels like it was a mistake to do now that all I hear every 15 minutes is, "Can't I just open 1 gift?!  Pleeeeeeeease!!!!"  Ugh.

I am so excited about all of the Christmas cards I've gotten from family and friends!  I think we've gotten 20 now. :)  I created a card wall in our kitchen on our magnetic chalkboard.  I drew a huge tree on it and covered all of our magnets with Christmas wrapping paper to hold the cards on the wall with.  It looks so fun and it's one of the happiest places in my house I think!  I love seeing the smiling faces of all of our loved ones every time I am in the kitchen.

We have to put the gate at the bottom of our stairs in the living room now.  Cason is ALWAYS on the stairs otherwise.  He can only go up and fall down them...hasn't figured out how to slide/crawl down them yet.

Our garbage disposal broke.  I went YEARS without one and yet it's killing me to have gone the past few days without it now that I am used to it.  I was spoiled by it.  We need a new one STAT!

I have a major laundry situation that needs addressed...I seem to always have a major laundry situation that needs addressed.  It's so annoying.

That's it for tonight!


Friday, December 14, 2012

2 women

2 of the most important women in my life share a birthday.
My mother turns 60 years young today.
So blessed that I get to call her my mother...she is amazing and loving and giving and I hope that I "grow up" to be even a little bit like her!  She has taught me and continues to teach me so much and I cannot imagine what I would do without her.
I love you, Mom...Happy Birthday!
 
And my dear friend, Lora.  I have said it before...she is so much more than a friend to me.  She is always here for me and my kids, she is supportive and loving and caring and so much fun!  God put her in my life YEARS ago...like 20 years ago.  Our friendship has grown and become one of the most important relationships in my life.  I love you, Lora...I cherish my friendship with you and love you more than words!  I cannot wait to celebrate with you tonight!
 
 

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Family Update...

Tate - He is reading.  Like for real reading.  I am so proud of him!  He LOVES school, thinks his teacher is the best teacher in the world (we think she's pretty fantastic too!), is thrilled that Ava and Kiley get to come play after school on weekdays and loves that his best friend from his class lives 3 doors down.  He can't wait for it to snow.  He is growing up so much!

Wesley - Just today when I was changing his pants, he said, "whoa, poop?"  I asked if he had to poop and he said yes, hopped up, ran to the bathroom and pooped!  This is huge...potty training has been a major struggle.  I was so proud of him!  Wesley is a spaz as usual, full of energy like no other child I know.  He is hilarious too!  He LOVES singing and dancing while listening to his iPod, he loves his brothers and is getting so big!  He wore some jammies last night that I put him in back in the spring and they were WAY too small!  He doesn't get night feedings anymore, so he is hungry all the time.  His favorite food?  Hot dogs.  He would eat them for every meal.  He is improving with his communication too...it's still a struggle, but he is talking much better.  He loves school so much and thinks it is so cool that he gets to ride the bus.

Cason -  He is all over the place, into everything.  He is pulling himself up to everything and climbing the stairs.  He imitates sounds and words and babbles ALL the time.  He is getting more attitude as well, which is good.  He gets angry when his brothers take a toy from him that he was playing with.  When he accidentally rolls a ball or pushes a car out of reach, he gets mad if he can't get to it.  Again, a great step in his development.  He is still the snuggliest, happiest boy though!  He eats anything we put in front of him, he snuggles into the shoulder of whoever picks him up, he laughs at the drop of a hat and has the best smile.  He attracts attention everywhere we go.

Sean and I - We are busy as usual...Sean with work, me with the kids and photography.  Sean has just taken a class to be a preceptor and has a new nurse that he is working with now.  He loves his job and I love mine. :)  I have the best clients ever. Period.  I am amazed after every photo session at how wonderful every single one is.  I love working with people!

We are so looking forward to the Christmas festivities to begin!  To me, things will start next Thursday when I am having approximately 20 ladies over for my cookie exchange!  I loved that evening last year and am going to make this an annual thing!  Can't wait for a fun adult evening with a bunch of wonderful women!

We will celebrate Christmas with my family on Christmas Eve and then Sean's family on the night of Christmas and then mostly on the morning of the 26th.  The kids don't know that we (along with Mike, Sarah, Leah and Kayla) will be going to a waterpark hotel for 2 nights after that.  It is their big Christmas gift and they are going to freak out!  We have decided to not bring Cason.  He isn't too fond of pool areas with his sensory issues and the echoing that goes on in hotel pool areas.  We are so blessed that the DeCooks offered to keep him for the 2 nights we will be gone.  He loves them and is completely at home with them and at their house.  He will have much more fun with them and it will be much easier for us to enjoy our time with the 2 big boys without having to comfort a distraught Cason.  And fortunately, he is young enough that he won't know the difference!

After our return home from our mini vacation, we will be enjoying having the boys off of school to spend some time with at home for a few days.  They are going to be spending New Years Eve with Mike, Sarah, Leah and Kayla at their home while we party with my side of the family in Muscatine.  Again, we are so blessed that we have Mike, Sarah and the girls here and that they love our boys so much that they are willing to take them on for the night...it's no easy task!

After we ring in 2013, the boys don't return back to school until the 8th!  It will be fun to have a good week of all of us home to start out the year, but I am sure ALL of us will be ready for school to start back up!  Still, our Christmas festivities will not be complete, we will be celebrating Christmas with Tate's birth family in January and also will be celebrating Cason's 2nd birthday, Tyler, Leah, Abby, Linda (my mother in law) and Sarah Peakin's birthdays on the Peakin side.  My sister's birthday is also in January!  It is a BUSY month!

I am hoping that we will have a low key February and then we'll be ready for our almost 2 week spring break vacation we're going on in March to Florida!  I have a feeling, the next few months is going to FLY by!

Ava's 6th birthday party!

Last Saturday, we spent the afternoon at Chuck E Cheese celebrating Ava's 6th birthday!
 
I cannot believe our kiddos are 6!  Where has the time gone?!
 
The DeCook Famiy...
 
Love these girls...

I believe Tate was trying to be sneaky at stealing a coin off of Ava's crown here.  And it just wouldn't be typical Tate if he didn't have food all over his face!

I love watching the friendship between Ava and Kiley!  They are so cute together and growing such a fun friendship!

Kiley and Tate went together and got Ava and iPod and headphones...she was thrilled!

All the kids had so much fun!

Make a wish!

Happy Birthday, Sweet Ava June!

Sunday, December 09, 2012

One year ago TODAY...

I will never forget receiving the call on December 9th last year that we were going to be getting a baby boy that we would hopefully be able to adopt.  I remember where I was standing in my kitchen, I remember who I called and what they said as I sobbed about what to do.  We had inquired about Wesley a few months before that and we had hope we would get him, but if we said yes to this baby, would they not give us Wesley if we ended up being selected for him?  I was torn, I was scared, I was worried I would make the wrong decision...so I let God make it.  A few days later, we met the baby...Cason.  Oh my goodness, I am so glad we said, yes, so glad we took that leap of faith and trusted God to work out all of the details.  I will always remember December 9th 2011.

Tuesday, December 04, 2012

Happy 4th Birthday, Wesley!

The first time we ever saw Wesley's face was when we looked at this picture...

It didn't take long for us to pursue learning more about him!
I will never forget the first time we met him!  He was FULL of energy and spunk!

It didn't take long for us to know we wanted him to be part of our family!

And then it happened, he actually became our son!  It's amazing how things have changed for him and us in the last year of his life!  He was almost 3 when we inquired about him after seeing his picture and now he's 4!  His life is completely different...everything about it!  You would never know though...he has taken all of the change and the chaos like a champ!

He got 2 new brothers and new parents...
 

New cousins, Nanas and Papas, aunts and uncles.
He has jumped into each of their loving arms with gusto and accepted all of them as they have accepted him.  We are in awe of him and his resilience.  He has had a full year with lots of ups and downs and more change than any 3 year old should have to endure in such a short period of time.

We have had LOTS of fun...
 

Lots of family time...

Some scary times...one which included a week long stay in the hospital...

And then recovery.
We moved into a new home and he got his new signature haircut! :)

We have celebrated holidays...

Started school...

Cheered on our team...

Walked the Kidney Walk...

Spent lots of time with family and friends...

Celebrated more holidays...

And then it had been a year since we first saw that picture of his adorable almost 3 year old face...just like that.

And he's 4...
 
 
Oh Wesley, you have taught us so much!  You embody a whole type of strength that we didn't know existed.  You've been through more in your life than many will have to endure in a lifetime.  Our love for you grows stronger with each day that passes and we just cannot express how blessed we feel to have you as our son.  You are such a gift to us.  We love your energy and your constant joy, you have the most incredible smile in the world and you give the most amazing hugs!  We cannot wait to watch you grow to become the man you were created to be and look forward to being there for you every step of the way!  Happy Happy Birthday, Wesley Xander, you are loved beyond words!!!
Love,
Mommy and Daddy